Stepping into the Role of The Alternative Doctor
I’ve fired myself. Yep, you read that right. I took a long, hard look at the direction I was heading and realized it wasn’t aligned with my passion or purpose.
For many, it’s a constant companion. Chronic stress – the kind that lingers day in and day out – pushes the body into “survival mode,” a state designed to help us manage short bursts of danger, not prolonged pressure.
From cancer diagnosis to ultimate triumph—this is my journey of resilience, grit, and living life on my terms. Discover how the Aleafia Way helped me not just survive, but thrive, and why I’m sharing this with you to inspire your own unstoppable potential.
We're going to explore how your cognition and hormones are not just dictating your mood, but how they're also steering the ship of your entrepreneurial journey. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stressed, or just plain stuck, I guarantee this is a topic you won’t want to scroll past.
I know that creating a business that is not aligned with your personal vision can be tough and I say this based on lived experience from previous roles, acting in fast-paced COO roles for huge businesses, as well as seeing this dichotomy of direction from some of the experts that I coach and mentor in their scale-up efforts. I've been in many businesses that have had a big vision - but if that vision doesn't fit the person/people that are running it then you hit roadblocks.
Studies have shown that physical touch, such as holding hands, hugging, and massaging, can release oxytocin, the hormone associated with bonding, trust, and attachment. Oxytocin has a calming effect on the body and can help to reduce stress, anxiety, and depression. This is why a simple hug from a loved one can make all the difference when you're feeling down.
When you are doing your due diligence, remember that a deal is only a good deal at the right price! From an initial look at the recent potential purchase we were assessing, the price - initially - all looked good, but upon further due diligence - which is something that I drill into my wellness business mentoring clients - it transpired that the price was pretty much based on what the seller ‘wanted’ and there were not many facts to back up the asking price.
When starting out in business it can be all too easy to look at those who are further ahead and wish to be in their situation.
But, what you need to understand is those people / influencers / competitors / business icons are most likely in a position of being aspirational to you because of the value that they bring. So, if you are looking to scale, the question you need to ask yourself is ‘how do I deliver more value?’
Having a strong vision and mission is imperative for your business to succeed, failing to have this is like going on a journey with no map… you’ll never get to the destination as you don’t actually know where you are trying to get to!
I know this probably sounds simple to a lot of my followers, who are established business owners, but when you are starting out, a lack of this sort of insight can trip you up.
“I like to think of myself as a tree, I will stand tall and strong with my roots firmly in the ground to support the growth of others. I have grown strong branches, and each of those branches become that support for my clients to grow, and they do the same onwards.” - Lauren Lepley-Caldon
Do you want to be a better coach or coachee? Do you need help in this area? Feel like the journey is not easy, but worth it? I've been there. It's hard work and takes dedication. You have to keep your eye on the prize, which means being relentless about what matters most to you personally and professionally. If this sounds like something that interests you then read more below!
Fun fact, did you know that the phrase 'work hard, play hard' can be traced back to 1884 in Wisconsin, when it was used as a slogan for the local college. Now it's a very common phrase that we've probably all said or heard at some point in our lives, talk about a successful marketing ploy!
I’ve fired myself. Yep, you read that right. I took a long, hard look at the direction I was heading and realized it wasn’t aligned with my passion or purpose.
Trauma is something we don’t “just get over” – it’s something we move through, transform, and integrate into our lives with care and intentionality. Trauma, whether it’s from a significant life event or a series of smaller, cumulative experiences, leaves an imprint on both the body and the mind. It shapes how we respond to stress, relationships, and daily challenges in ways we may not even be fully aware of.
Imagine a state where everything just clicks. Your focus is razor-sharp, you’re fully engaged, and time seems to fade away. This is flow, and it’s not only one of the most productive mental states you can achieve but also one of the most rewarding. Psychologists describe flow as “optimal experience” because it’s when you feel your best and perform at your peak. Achieving flow isn’t a matter of luck – it’s a skill, one you can cultivate and use as a tool for both personal fulfilment and professional success.
Living an aligned life isn’t just about “doing the right thing” or checking boxes. It’s about creating a life that resonates with who you are at the core. It’s a life that feels meaningful, fulfilling, and energising because it’s anchored in what you genuinely value. Aligning your life with your values is one of the most powerful ways to build resilience, cultivate happiness, and foster a deep sense of purpose.
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